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Halloween, Bonfire Night, Diwali - explaining British autumn to my children

Anya.Petrova · Member91 views5 replies

Anya.Petrova

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We moved from Bulgaria in summer. My children are 6 and 8. Now in school they hear about Halloween, then fireworks for a man called Guy, then their friend talks about Diwali, then poppies. They ask me questions and I don't know half of the answers.

The fireworks one especially. My son asked 'why do they celebrate a man who wanted to explode the parliament' and I had nothing.

How do you explain all this to children who are new here? Also, are all these things something we must do, or can we just watch?

justanotheraunty

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Ha, your son asked a better question than most British adults. Simplest version I give my nephews: it's not celebrating him, it's remembering that his plot was stopped. And these days it's mostly just an excuse for fireworks and a hot dog in the cold.

Yasmin_H

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You can absolutely just watch. Nothing is compulsory. Diwali is a festival of lights for Hindus, Sikhs and Jains - if their friend celebrates, they might be invited round for sweets, and the right thing is just to go and enjoy it. People love sharing it.

GranchesterGail

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For the poppies - it's for the people who died in the wars, and on the Sunday nearest the 11th there's a two minute silence. Children usually find that very moving if you explain it simply. It's one I'd say is worth joining in with, because it's about everybody.

Lina_M

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I am from Lithuania and when we came I felt the same. What I did: pick one or two and do them properly, the rest just let them see. We do Bonfire Night because the park display is fun, Halloween we only carve pumpkin. And we still do our own traditions too, the children like that they have both.

Anya.Petrova

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Thank you all. I told my son justanotheraunty's version and he said 'so it's a party because the bad plan failed'. Yes. We go to the fireworks in the park on Saturday. And his friend's mother invited us for Diwali, so we go there too and bring something Bulgarian.

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