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Poppies at school and a question from my son I couldn't answer

Kofi.A · Member100 views3 replies

Kofi.A

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My son is 7. His class have been learning about Remembrance and he came home with a paper poppy and a lot of questions. Most I could answer. Then he asked, 'Did our family fight?' and I realised I didn't know.

My grandfather was from Ghana. I have a feeling he or his brothers may have served, as many West African men did, but nobody in the family ever talked about it and I never asked.

Has anyone gone looking for this kind of history? And how do you talk to young kids about war without frightening them?

GranchesterGail

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What a lovely question from your son. My father served and never talked about it either - we only learned bits after he died. Ask your older relatives now, while you can. Even small details are precious.

Mo.Rahman

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My great-grandfather was in the Indian Army in the Second World War. We found out through a cousin who'd done research. Hundreds of thousands of men from Africa and South Asia served and it's barely taught. Your son is going to learn something most of his class won't.

JaneEyreFan

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For the frightening bit - I keep it to: a lot of people were very brave, a lot of people died, and now we take two minutes to remember them so we never forget how bad war is. Kids handle that well. They take their cue from how calm you are.

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